To be honest! "Everyone are in pain". It may be physically or mentally or emotionally.
I have gone through a traumatic pain in my life which is about my appearance. I feel very bad when people tell me Hey! You look pretty but you......if you lose some weight you'll be much prettier. And some say if you are not losing weight then you will be suffering with health issues. Of course i know that ! But people body shame others in the name of health which is not fine. Everyone have their own problems and no one know what is going on in someone else's life. Whenever i go to some funtions i love wearing saree I don't really mind if i look fat. But out of no where a group of people will comment on my dressing like "you should have tried some other saree which make you appear thin" . I was confident about my dressing and i replied "nothing can change the way Iam, if I'm fat I'll look the same way in any kind of dress. And of course everyone know how to dress and I was not at all embarrassing anyone or myself. I was fine in that dress!. I really have gone through the pain of being fat in many places. Even now i will cry thinking i don't look good. Many of my friends told me I'm beautiful the way I'm and many told me to maintain a diet or to do some workouts hmm...thats okay !
I know we have to love the way we are but sometimes its HURTS.
If you have gone through such incidents just share it.❤️

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