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Emotional Dependence 🙍🏻♀️¯_ಠ_ಠ_/¯
The most dangerous thing in todays world is emotional Dependence🥀 .
Now it can be of various types - First dependence on ur partner, dependence on ur family members and friends 👫
and the Second and by far most harmful type is dependence on a third person while being in a relationship👭 ..👩🏻🦰/🕺🏻.
In the first type jb aap apne family members pr depend hote h, ya apne partner aur friends par ....u can still trust them kyuki vo apne h and mostly aapka bura nhi chahte, but fir bhi my advice - aapko kbhi bhi apni individuality nhi khone Deni chahiye . Support lena Galat nhi but backbone hi bana lena Galat h.. as a person, as an individual aapko itna strong minded hona chahiye ki time aane pr aap khud k liye khade ho ske ya , apne faisle le ske . Aapko apne existence ko khatam nhi hone dena h that's the healthy way to look at it .
But the second situation 🙂 I can't tell u how toxic it is . Jb do log rishte me h aur phir bhi aapko iss bat ki jarurat mehsoos ho rhi h ki aap kisi tisre insan me comfort dhund rhe h ..🙃 it's clear cheating. It's the biggest reason nowadays why relationships are broken so easily bcz people are not ready to be honest 🤷🏻♀️they don't want the communication 🙅🏻♀️they are afraid of showing their real self 🦎, they are afraid to ask and share... So they find a third person whom they can share these things without being labelled. Isse hota ye h ki jo baate aapko aapke partner se krni chahiye, jo waqt aapko unhe Dena chahiye vo aap khi aur de rhe h and isse distance aati h aur ek waqt k bad aap apne partner se totally disconnect ho jate h . Same happens when u come in relationship with that third person thinking ki aap usse sab share kr skte h but aap fir uss label se darte h aur fir ek new third person aur ye cycle chalta rhta h and it slowly drains ur essence from u 🙍🏻♀️and u think what's wrong with me .
so my perspective is that be honest🤷🏻♀️ no matter how hard it is ..do communicate with ur partner , don't seek emotional support outside and behave mature in a moral way . If still things doesn't work come out of that relationship work on urself and when ready allow urself to love again 🌹🌿.
That's all I wanted to share today (ʘᴗʘ✿)
Bye bye 👋🏻
© preeti choudhary
Now it can be of various types - First dependence on ur partner, dependence on ur family members and friends 👫
and the Second and by far most harmful type is dependence on a third person while being in a relationship👭 ..👩🏻🦰/🕺🏻.
In the first type jb aap apne family members pr depend hote h, ya apne partner aur friends par ....u can still trust them kyuki vo apne h and mostly aapka bura nhi chahte, but fir bhi my advice - aapko kbhi bhi apni individuality nhi khone Deni chahiye . Support lena Galat nhi but backbone hi bana lena Galat h.. as a person, as an individual aapko itna strong minded hona chahiye ki time aane pr aap khud k liye khade ho ske ya , apne faisle le ske . Aapko apne existence ko khatam nhi hone dena h that's the healthy way to look at it .
But the second situation 🙂 I can't tell u how toxic it is . Jb do log rishte me h aur phir bhi aapko iss bat ki jarurat mehsoos ho rhi h ki aap kisi tisre insan me comfort dhund rhe h ..🙃 it's clear cheating. It's the biggest reason nowadays why relationships are broken so easily bcz people are not ready to be honest 🤷🏻♀️they don't want the communication 🙅🏻♀️they are afraid of showing their real self 🦎, they are afraid to ask and share... So they find a third person whom they can share these things without being labelled. Isse hota ye h ki jo baate aapko aapke partner se krni chahiye, jo waqt aapko unhe Dena chahiye vo aap khi aur de rhe h and isse distance aati h aur ek waqt k bad aap apne partner se totally disconnect ho jate h . Same happens when u come in relationship with that third person thinking ki aap usse sab share kr skte h but aap fir uss label se darte h aur fir ek new third person aur ye cycle chalta rhta h and it slowly drains ur essence from u 🙍🏻♀️and u think what's wrong with me .
so my perspective is that be honest🤷🏻♀️ no matter how hard it is ..do communicate with ur partner , don't seek emotional support outside and behave mature in a moral way . If still things doesn't work come out of that relationship work on urself and when ready allow urself to love again 🌹🌿.
That's all I wanted to share today (ʘᴗʘ✿)
Bye bye 👋🏻
© preeti choudhary
