This thing has been brewing up in my mind ever since one of my friend left writing. She was a super talented writer who had many dreams. I tried talking her out; the way we all have to do with our friends. The one thing she said struck me really bad. She claimed that her work is starting soon and it’s better to live in reality than dreams. This followed with a series of events from discord server where I have been volunteering. Someone had difficulty in speaking about something and I tried taking things into my hand. It resulted in collision and a strong inelastic one. I started doubting myself; day to day troubles and then there was certain someone who loved scratching me every now and then in jealousy. The loopholes that were left were for growth not as a matter of ignorance. Lack of understanding pushed me away. I tried changing myself but nature held me with ear and kicked me out.

So the questions which I have been processing were for long and hard in this gave me different answers. I saw two people idealists and realistic but both had their suffering. Realists repented on being harsh while idealists wept on being too soft. One ranted on being world not like they dreamt of and other lectured on reality. One man’s truth is another man’s lie in often cases; that doesn’t make either of them liar. Just perspective differ and we need to develop due understanding. These levels differ from person to person as experience vary. Wisdom is only earned through experience. Each side has its pros and cons but was there a middle way not to lose oneself?

Junction of truth and lies amidst of brain storming I found a way of moderation. Dreams do exist. Reality has a direct loop with it. If we dream and plan keeping in view reality; its quite possible for dreams to materialize into reality. The people who scratch you every now and then there is no need to waste energy of them. Every day brings new hits and tree with most fruits gets most stones. Now its upto us; whether we make a castle out of it or our morgue. This world was increasingly designed to depress us and man is a fine ungrateful creature. I have seen people eating expired food with molds in quarantine and being grateful on one hand and on other hand some people yelling because they have to eat certain potato from their field every day. Same goes for age to grow. You need to stop telling a 23 year old that she needs to grow up if she laughs too much. Everything in moderation including moderation. Strongest one aren’t those who have brute force they are those who will to adopt through changes while staying true to their branches. So hold onto your branches tightly beautiful humans because its worthed and cultivate kindness and acceptance

Saranghae. Peace out. ❤🤍

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