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Woman...
Hello guys....
Today what i have written don't take it personally.I am just writing what i feel ,also it is my speech topic so wish me luck...

Everyone has a right right to live in their own way,
Am I not a living thing,
Why you treat me like this?....
I want some freedom,I am not a cage bird...
I am not trying to defining anyone,I am not trying to define her,I am just asking....
Is She Not A Living Thing?
A woman who is pillar of house,doesn't worth any freedom,think of it....
Like we born,
we die,
But we die when,
our rights be snatched.... I think....
She is a creature who want equal rights as a man,I want to live let me do it....
In our world not just about my or your national but about all humans being,about all womanhood.
Baby girl born started the conflict,Someone says she is born to ruin us or someone says she is not worthy to celebrate but in our modern society some people also think her as a ....
Goddess of their house...
In our patriarchal society some people doesn't think that she is worthy to celebrate,or some doesn't give her freedom what she wants.She is starting to growing by depending on the people in house.
In her small age she is subordinated on father after marriage on husband or in her old age she is depressed on her son....
She didn't have her own life..
In man's life he has to struggle for money but In woman's life she has to struggle for life and identity.
She is started to growing.Some parents let her go study or some didn't give her permission for it.They just held her in households.She started to study well but after coming back to home,she has to help in households not much but has to do it,it is important.Some parents just let her study also.
She is started to growing and dreaming but she doesn't know that her dream is not going to fulfill.In her 18s she is thinking about her future but her parents are thinking about her marriage or sometime she is aware of it.
Is girl a product....
Some parents support her or some married her off without thinking.They don't think that her other family is going to support her or not.Some in laws support her or sometime after marriage her education is in vain.Or if she refused to marry she has to face the hatred from the society.Society says if she wants to feel safe she has to marry.
Why all time woman has to marry for being and feeling safe....
I think she is not a home piece let her do what she want....
Why all time woman has to sacrifice for family?Some in laws support her or sometime she has to bearing suffering after marriage.She can do many things let her do it.Why all time woman's character is questionable?
If she is coming late then all questions arose,Why a girl and a boy not a friend?Why if a girl and a boy found alone in room then girls character is questionable?If a girl is raped then she has to hide but a boy who is culprit he can live freely,Why all time girl has to be a product for false prestige and pride?If she is coming late to home then the society says she is trying to bring shameness for her family.
I am not justifing her or judgmental for man and society.We have many womans examples who became big like Indira Gandhi,Fatima bibi and Sunita Williams etc.Or some girls are that types who try to bring shameness for their family but all girls are not same.
I just want to tell parents that...
You know your girl well don't judge her by others words,try to win her heart that she can share anything with you,try to understand her because all time she has to fight for her life and identify on every steps in her life....


© Aeni Shah