Advice for those ladies who make videos of their half-naked bodies, twerking and all kinds of indecent dressing, and post them on social media. It's about time you realize that guys will definitely view those videos, they may even give you credits, but will certainly be discouraged from marrying you or having anything serious with you. They will date you just for fun and to explore your body while it lasts, but they will never plan a future with you because they have recognized you as the cheap and irresponsible person you have presented yourself by making those videos. It's about time you understand that beauty is not just about complexion, body shape or wearing body-revealing clothes. There is beauty in studying for a degree, there is beauty in dressing modestly, there is beauty in being that quiet naive girl, there is beauty in being sensible enough not to be swayed by trends or fashion, there is beauty in being responsible and decent, just name it. Posting body-revealing videos or photos for fun, views, followers, or whatever reason; dressing indecently will only attract the wrong people, which may or may not actually be your motive. However, you should ask yourself what you gain from such immoral acts. Ask yourself if you're really happy with what you're doing, if you'd be happy when one of those videos or pictures create a bad impression of you in the future or destroys your reputation after you may have changed. The truth is that no responsible man would want to marry a woman who engages in such immoral acts and be serious with her. The sooner you realize this, the better for you. I wish you what you wish yourself.

© Lil Destar