Though it seems tough, or maybe most people you know have gotten a divorce or about to ,or they are unfaithful to each other ,whether they fight ,argue more than they agree in anything ,and seeing this has made you to decide never to marry .I have good news for you ,marriage does work ,and it is very much possible to find a faithful ,loving spouse and really enjoy and be happily married ,but all this is up to you ,whether you choose the true original way of marriage or what the world has made it to be, so I'm gonna give you 2 examples of marriage ,and you have a free will to choose which one is the one you desire. (1)married according to the world::::: see when you are in this kind of marriage ,you do as you please in the sense that men and women have 50/50 equal rights ,so meaning that their is no head both parties are in equality .(2) Married according to God's will .In this marriage each partner has a role to play ,The husband is the head of the wife .Looking at both marriage's I'm sure you all want to choose the first one based on how I explained the two , if you want a forever til death do you apart then I urge you to choose God's way of marriage. it makes life easy ,A wife must submit to the husband and the husband to love his wife as his own body ,if not understood you as wife it may come as control but in truth it is the only way for a marriage to work ,look at it this way ,if you cook,clean ,do what your husband asks of you ,then in turn if you husband love your wife as you love yourself unconditionally ,(no matter the circumstance everyone loves themselves ) .The love you will give your wife will make it easier for her to do things for you in turn wife when you do things for your husband it makes it easier for him to love you ,this means peace ,respect ,happiness in your home ,so do the right thing and be joined together in marriage ad God's put it ,for the 50/50 only leads to fight ,unfaithfulness, disrespect and more .Its up to you whether you're in it to win it