hate this patriarchial society, abusive words, just hate it and want to say these words are not bad words just to hear but hurt the person from deepest of heart, thes words these thoughts that always bend down women & are that venom which not hurt someone's feelings but poisons the person's soul. her supressing of thoughts burst down her anger in tears. i feel sorry also for those mothers who support blindly their sons in use of such words and always count the lines on her son's forehead but ignores the wet bedsheet that has imprints of tears of that women who cared the house and always worked like a slave and the reward for her at the end of day are tears that she has as she has a life as sin.dont set partial rules separate for women, learn that both hae equal self respect and mothers stop blaming women for even small things atleast respect that u r also a women before being a mother. for men before using abusive words think twice as for u it might be a word but for someone it is die hard pain on their soul.and for mothers covering and giving explaination to their thinking instead teach them to develop good thoughts.