so here's the thing,
i came across a post on instagram that said
"people bellow 12 ask and people above 12 answer" and i checked the comments.
there was this one comment stating as follows:
"advice: please don't fall in love, its not worth the tears"
well what i think of this is that, everyone deserves to love and be loved. no matter what their age is, love should not be a taboo, love is something so pure that this generation lacks on understanding.
i know this can be controversial and I may come off as judgy or immature but this is it.
love is an emotion, a feeling that we can't control.
some people get heartbroken and stop their journey of falling in love and run from love, but oh dear do you think that'll stop love from coming your way? heartbreak is just a phase, it'll not last forever because love will always find its way. When God sends us something, we feel at peace, but when it's not alligned with our attentions, it'll always be confusing. don't judge someone else's love life by your own experience! we are all humans, evolving, educating, inspiring. we should choose to not judge and let things happen the way it happens, why hinder the flow of things right?
Now what I mean to say is, love is something that keeps us alive, doesn't always need to be the love for a man or a woman. love is what ur mother and u share, love is what your friends and you share as well. There's so much to love around and still so much war. Love is to long for someone, love is to feel alive, love is to feel the beauty of things that other people forget to notice.
let's take this one step and start loving and appreciating things around us no matter what our age is. love is not immature or mature, love is what each one of you can tend to offer to one another.

thanks, that's my pov, yours might be different.
i just had to let it all out here🫶🏻
see you soon,
© anshika