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Please don’t give up on yourself and be kind to yourself. I know that it is easier said than done, but we have to learn how. Many people will give up on you when you no longer meet their expectations. Many people around you will show kindness just because they feel the need to reciprocate what you are doing, but when your kindness does not affect them anymore, some of them will turn their back on you. I know that you are getting lonely whenever such an occurrence happens, but you can’t do anything about it because it is beyond your control.

In times like that, I want you not to hate yourself but to be kind to yourself. It’s not your fault if you failed to meet people’s expectations, so please do me a favor: don’t blame yourself. Instead, divert your energies to things that will help you grow as a good person. You will be fine—genuinely fine.