Woman's body is very sacred to her.
She can't share it with anyone or every one,
just for the sake of fun or having sex.
Yes she devote herself to the one she Loves ..
or the one commits her with integrity,
to be with her for the lifetime throughout all the ups and downs of life.
Or someone whom she sees as a father of her children she wishes for.

For a woman surrendering her body to a man is a very divine process!
For her..
it's
like dying beautifully into something unknown,
for the new birth of her own being.

What my understanding is...

A girl blooms into a woman
for the first time with the touch of her man...
and the day that bloom turns into a fruit,
that woman magically turns into a mother.
magic of his man's touch...!
it's not sex for her,
for her..
'union of two souls' in the physical realm,
'who are already one' in the mental and all other nonphysical realms.
So she waits all her life for that one man.

It is that divine to her!
If sex and having fun were so important to her, she couldn't have waited for so long.
And Even that's why after becoming a mother,
a woman is not that interested in getting physically involved... because now her priority is her kids.
but she still does that for her man,
in service to her man.
As her duty towards her man.
Taking away all his stress...
may be due to hormonal activities inside the body, or may be it's life Playing the game.
She tries her best to...make him feel good.
Give him a moment of divine bliss,
fulfilling his biological need,
through the medium of her Love,
as she knows man are mentally and emotionally weak,
she gives him her strength
and
all her love.
she does it out of her duty and responsibility towards her man.
and out of her Love for her man.
She makes his desires her own,
to see him happy and blessed all the time.
ofcourse being in her man's arms
is Godly to her as well.
But it has nothing to do with sex.
Indulging physically with any man,
is not like a sipping a tea.
No.
Not only physically,
but even if mentaly she has given herself to someone,
it's hard for her to disconnect the cords that easily.
No it's really tough...particularly when there is a fog in the relationship. All unclear.

Being physical with whom your cords are so deeply rooted, is just like bringing it to the surface what she already holds within,
the surrender!
The devotion!
The Love... she feels for him inside.
because breaking the mental grid is more complex,
even more complex then physical.
but because her energy doesn't centralize in her body...
she is physically weak and don't know how to handle if has even physically entangled... with someone,
because definitely there is an exchange of energy...
her highs are gone
his lows remained with her,
that's why she feels so empty inside,
so drained outside,
though she can handle things very well with her mental strength when she fall sick.
102° fever and she cooks for her kids and the family,
does well all her duties...
no body even able to know what she has been through all day, they come to know,
only when they find her sleeping untime... after all her work done.
She handles all kind of physical pain,
even ably handle herself well in all harsh and toughest situations of life.
But when a man breaks her heart and particularly after getting involved physically emotionally in every way... is really bad! really hard for her.. I understand that
( but for so called celebraties it's easy to give lectures on manhood, womanhood with their half-head knowledge.)
I understand that...

She feels as if she is dead almost....
and sometimes so dead that can't even decide for herself what's right and what's wrong...and takes the wrong step.
(flash back.. one of my childhood friend...
she was elder then me I used to call her didi, one and only daughter to her parents I was given so much love by all of them... she used to take me as her little sister and her parents like their another daughter ...but one day....and I could do nothing, neither for her.. nor for her parents...her parents broke so badly that they left the job, sold the house, and went to some unknown place.
they were so simple as a person... I still feel at times when think of them... I owe them for the Love they given me...and I could not repay her and her family back when they needed the most. But acceptance is life when things are not in your hand.)
And usually men are not sensitive enough to
look at the things from her angle.
I can feel the pain of all innocent women on the earth....
sometimes I feel like giving all my love and strength to them... while they go through this phase, if they are very pure at heart and haven't done any wrong to someone or anyone.
so they can stand again..
and wisdom so they can wisely choose their man....
so try to protect all the youger ones.

Indulging with someone.
It's very spiritual for her....!!!
when she surrender her body to someone she loves,
inside she is in a state where she feels. ...
"giving yours to you,"
"giving her world to someone
who means the world to her."
And when she has given her body to someone who doesn't actually know the value of what she has given him.
And when she comes to know the fact... they were just playing.
it breaks her down badly,
tear her apart insuch way... that actually becomes hard to heal ever.
As if she has given all her power, that can't be taken back.
now..then doesn't even have the energy to stand on her feet again.
because it's really happening,
not only in the physical realm but also deeply in the nonphysical.
That's why it's really important with whom you share your body, and it's not only for women but also important for men.
यहीं कुंडली हैं, जो कभी पंडित मिलाया करते थे..
with right person it will boost your energy,
with wrong it will drain you out.
whether a man or a woman!
But definitely it affects badly to women more and to some of the sensitive men too,
those are inside feminine in nature or say internaly more close to the feminine side of them.
Because they are highly sensitive in nature towards the Energy.

But यदी दिल मिल जाते हैं...
प्रेम के जगत में दो आत्मा मिल जाते हैं।
फिर कुंडली वुंडली उतना matter नहीं करता..
क्योंकि प्रेम और ध्यान ऐसी शक्तियां है जो
गृह नक्छत्रों से भी बलवान होतीं हैं।

well...
her virginity is actually her power,
it's very spiritual thing.
(though in today's world लोगो ने हर चीज़ को बाज़ार और महज़ सामान बना दिया हैं।)
The power multiplies for both
when it goes to the right person,
Who has as much love, care and concern for her/him as much she/he does...
and many a times if not as much...
even a little bit of her man's love..and care uplifts her energy so much that nothing remains impossible for her.
Those who understand the energy and the way it functions,
will understand this...
and
that's why I try to protect the youngsters, the young girls....
at least whom I can,
with my guidance...
warn them that don't submit your self to any man so easily.
Your virginity is your power.... keep it safe for the person who deserves to have it.... and if you are existing ! other half of you also existing.
You will create what you are.
So make sure you become first, what you want from them.
And then any how you will attract such person...
or if you can be so selfless in love,
give it to the one... you love.
I mean truly Love.
And can dare to bear the pain, and let them go happily... if they wishes to.
after you don't feel at loss.. and won't ever feel at loss,
even if he lost you.
Love has a different joy of giving, forgive and totally forget.
But do it only if you can selflessly love someone, then forgive and forget.
Where you don't have to preserve any kind of regrets and complaints.
Then that's all your wish, do! what you wish to do.
Universe knows only the language of energy, Vibration and Frequency...
so be sure what signal you are giving to the universe.
Same it will catch,
and same it will bring forth to you in life.



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