They ask how difficult it is to confess it to someone whom you have a crush on?
They ask how difficult it is to just MAN UP and say that you like her?

How often are we asked to be bold, and macho to show them that we are strong?

They ask how difficult it is to make her fall in fall in love with you?
They ask how difficult it is to get her to notice you.

Just because I am a boy why am I expected to show myself as not afraid to express myself to someone?
Just because I am a boy, why am I expected to not be serious with someone from the start?

They ask me, how difficult it is to act like you are not very interested, when she is the only one, I am interested in.
They ask me, how difficult it is to not be serious with someone and keep it casual when that is something I can’t do.

Now, since your questions are done, and you are done judging me for the way I am,
let’s turn the tables and point those fingers at you,
let’s get you the spotlight that you wanted and
let me ask some questions.
Now it’s my turn to ask them who ask how easy it is…….

How easy it is for you to switch from one person to another within months and feel nothing?

How easy it is for you to just say…. Bro/dude, it’s casual between us, without even asking her if she feels the same.

How easy it is for you to walk out on someone and feel nothing?

How easy it is for you to think of relationships as a means of physical intimacy just to have some fun?

How easy it is for you to just keep a count of all those who has been with you?
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It hurts right?
These questions pinch you somewhere, don’t they?

When you can’t say how EASY it is, how can you expect me to express how DIFFICULT it is for me?

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