It upsets me that no one finds it possible that somone could ever be capable of understanding their own feelings enough to decide who they are as a person. I understand that some people are impressionable and naive, I am young and knowledgeable of very little but this does not diminish my ability to know myself, and it does not undermine the truth in what I say. Most of all, just because someone is not what you expected them to be, does not mean that they are wrong, or that they are lying, or that they have been manipulated into being different from what you want, it means that...