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this is exactly what it is when its brokepqà,down. just follow me here, or at least try to, and even if you get lost just keep going bc eventually it'll all make sense ....
people say marriage ruins marriages, the titles, the officiality of it.... but I say its all wrong.
people ruin marriages not the marriage.
people forget what and why they married that individual in the first place. happiness, love, attraction, intimacy, commitment, dedication, faithfulness, its all a choice... you chose what you see in your partner.
remember when you first started seeing them and they did nothing wrong?? like there is not one thing in this world they could do that would irritate you and even if it did you loved it bc you loved them. hello. you chose to see the highlights of them and accept the baggag.
now, just them being in the same room wit you causes your blood pressure too go sky high, speaking of which its time to take your daily medication all bc you stress so bad over this marriage now that your health is being impacted.
husband...or kinda sounds like. was-been...
was-been kinda makes sense too if you break it all down ....
lemme show you.
he was.... now he been..
a wasbeen sounds kinda cute and fluffy like a cartoon creature. but In reality it's your fat old man asleep drunk I'ln his recliner farting with a 12 pack of beer piled and spilled all around him along with dinner you made him 4 hours ago all over his face and just bleached white t shirt... snoring like a lumber jack cutting logs...
and yet it just hit all of us, did we really shave our legs for this???
he WAS... a 11/10 when y'all got hit with twiterpated ... ..
WAS was also and is also referred to in the past tense. meaning your husband used to, but he don't Anymore.
and he probably won't ever again but you feel forced to settle and accept it for what it is now. not what it was, or still could be if given the effort energy and time y'all gave it back then.
now.... BEEN.. he BEEN doing what???
not a god dam thing on that honey do list. can't even get a kiss out of him on the way to work, so sex definitely isn't happening.
he WAS such a great guy in the beginning. even after the whole honey moon phase WAS over. you still had lust and love and everything in between to conduct this relationship..
he WAS perfect even when he wasn't. you could still see yourself growing old with this person..
Soo the BEEN
people say marriage ruins marriages, the titles, the officiality of it.... but I say its all wrong.
people ruin marriages not the marriage.
people forget what and why they married that individual in the first place. happiness, love, attraction, intimacy, commitment, dedication, faithfulness, its all a choice... you chose what you see in your partner.
remember when you first started seeing them and they did nothing wrong?? like there is not one thing in this world they could do that would irritate you and even if it did you loved it bc you loved them. hello. you chose to see the highlights of them and accept the baggag.
now, just them being in the same room wit you causes your blood pressure too go sky high, speaking of which its time to take your daily medication all bc you stress so bad over this marriage now that your health is being impacted.
husband...or kinda sounds like. was-been...
was-been kinda makes sense too if you break it all down ....
lemme show you.
he was.... now he been..
a wasbeen sounds kinda cute and fluffy like a cartoon creature. but In reality it's your fat old man asleep drunk I'ln his recliner farting with a 12 pack of beer piled and spilled all around him along with dinner you made him 4 hours ago all over his face and just bleached white t shirt... snoring like a lumber jack cutting logs...
and yet it just hit all of us, did we really shave our legs for this???
he WAS... a 11/10 when y'all got hit with twiterpated ... ..
WAS was also and is also referred to in the past tense. meaning your husband used to, but he don't Anymore.
and he probably won't ever again but you feel forced to settle and accept it for what it is now. not what it was, or still could be if given the effort energy and time y'all gave it back then.
now.... BEEN.. he BEEN doing what???
not a god dam thing on that honey do list. can't even get a kiss out of him on the way to work, so sex definitely isn't happening.
he WAS such a great guy in the beginning. even after the whole honey moon phase WAS over. you still had lust and love and everything in between to conduct this relationship..
he WAS perfect even when he wasn't. you could still see yourself growing old with this person..
Soo the BEEN
