Knowing what love is, how to love and being in love are three different things we need to understand before embarking on the journey of love💕. loving someone is not a balance platform for you to love, the motive should be beyond the outward appearance but instead in the inward appearance (character)
When you don't have the ability to understand what love is, the experience gotten negatively makes your definition of love distructive.
You don't love because you are of age to love, you love because you are sure that your matured for love(spiritually, mentally, physically and emotionally). you love because you are ready to sacrifice, to give up anything for your partner, to grow together and build a home 🏠.
Relationship is like a company that demands contribution from both partners for the growth of the company (relationship)
Now the question is;
What can you bring to the table?
How can you make the opposite sex grow?
Do you have ideals that could give him or her money for growth?