How much we say we are modern by heart or by mind,
But we are nothing similar to that gossip queen aunt of our area,
Who's thinking is similar to just one thing and they choose not to see out of the box ,
When talking on the topic of sex is similar to fully interested to having a sex with them,
When talking about virginity and periods or body parts is similar to interested in sending a picture of that body part or some kind of pleasure ,
When talking about masturbation is similar to keeping a hope for the future,
Being an open minded person was always taken as a wrong way,
always just because your purpose behind to gain a knowledge ,
that's why it's important allow sex education in every country,
When you start saying no here is the main problem start,
If she or he is talking about sex talking about his Virginity or relationship or beliefs ,
How she or he is denying that she or he is not interested yet ,
How she or he can say a no to me ,
How dare they can hurt my ego,
It's about consent if you know the basic thing ,
Say no when you don't feel like to go dig deeper on the conversation,
Say no because you feel uncomfortable and stop being a people pleaser ,
Say no because it's sucking your inner peace of the mind ,
Whether they are your friend, best friend ,your partner or any other person in the world ,
Saying no is your choice and being not offended by it thats there's test I guess for your relation with them .

© vyanjana