*Are we DATING FOR FUN OR FOR MARRIAGE OR SOMETHING ELSE * thought of asking?????

Like I said earlier it’s a beautiful question.
But a question that can be very harmful if not handled well.
Per my suggestions I think such reasonable question must be asked personally to your own self and the answer generated from within you becomes your mandate in a relationship
Why am I saying this.

If you ask your partner this question. It’s two things.
It’s either he or she lies to you or tell you the truth ...
Which in all ways the answer from your partner won’t be healthy for the relationship... be it a lie or the truth

If your say or answer
That “ you guys are dating for fun “
It’s automatically put a red light on the relationship and like a virus infected into it, it’s going to...