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A beautiful Wife!
A Beautiful Wife‼
You are beautiful and charming. You might be good at cooking, sexually active, fruitful but in marriage did you realize what your husband is expecting from you are beyond that?
Truly no man is perfect neither can any man give 100% contentment but that doesn't mean you should be too comfortable neglecting things that are necessary for your marriage.
Are you even aware your creativeness and usefulness are more beautiful than the facial appearance?
Using your initiative to sort through without being monitored or notify makes you more real and reliable.
Waiting several times to be educated or notify before you realize something should be done will be giving your husband an irritating impression of you. Many men easily get tired when it comes to this.
Don't only be dynamic on the bed or in dressings but everything about you. Always use the potentials in you to prove to your husband you are a DUTIFUL WOMAN and not a girl.
Your Kitchen is your office as a wife and it is also part of your beauty. Always make it clean and healthy.
It is a stain on you as a wife if your husband is the one that reminds you to tidy up your own office (i.e kitchen) or if your husband is the one that does the kitchen cleaning because you refused to do it.
Your matrimonial room is your powerhouse. Your job here isn't only to sleep with your husband. Don't relent in always tidying it up and making it pleasant.
Imagine how unpleasant it will be if your husband returns home for the day and found the room and bed were the same rough ways he left them.
Always make yourself friendly and approachable for your children especially your female children. Monitor them and teach them the necessary things (e.g sex, hygiene, home management, morality, etc) they need to know.
If you are too busy to make yourself available or failed to teach them, certainly someone else will be available to teach them the wrong way.
There is beauty in caring. How you care for your husband, your availability, and your concerns about his progression are what determines the length of your occupancy in his heart. Avoid making your housemaid or someone else to be more available to your husband than yourself.
This is one of the ways the temptation comes in. Some are not intentional.
Be your family prayer warrior by making prayer a habit and something you are never too tired to always engage with. Be your husband Prophetess by always encouraging, motivating, supporting, and prophesying positively into his life.
When you trap your husband down with curses and bad words, automatically you hooked yourself, children, and all that would have been progressing for your family down too.
Comparing your husband to worldly men will not give you a good idea but a wrong impression that would induce you to fall on the erroneous path.
Don't compare your husband to the world. This is one of the ways you can help to strengthen yourself and avoid distractions from doing things that are right for your husband and marriage.
As a woman, everything about you contributes to your beauty. Always clean up yourself. As a woman, your body system easily generates odors. That is the reason you need to be hygienic. Bath and change your wears (both outside and underwear) more than once daily. This will make you look fresh and smelling nice to your husband.
You can't be a wasteful, rude, dirty, sluggish, nagging, or uncaring woman and expect your husband to be happy with you. All these dirty attitudes will give your husband an irritating impression of you. If you fail to amend or change in a matter of time it can cause your husband to get tired of you in everything and this can lead to break up.
A beautiful wife is more than look and appearance.
© Adebayo Adebare
You are beautiful and charming. You might be good at cooking, sexually active, fruitful but in marriage did you realize what your husband is expecting from you are beyond that?
Truly no man is perfect neither can any man give 100% contentment but that doesn't mean you should be too comfortable neglecting things that are necessary for your marriage.
Are you even aware your creativeness and usefulness are more beautiful than the facial appearance?
Using your initiative to sort through without being monitored or notify makes you more real and reliable.
Waiting several times to be educated or notify before you realize something should be done will be giving your husband an irritating impression of you. Many men easily get tired when it comes to this.
Don't only be dynamic on the bed or in dressings but everything about you. Always use the potentials in you to prove to your husband you are a DUTIFUL WOMAN and not a girl.
Your Kitchen is your office as a wife and it is also part of your beauty. Always make it clean and healthy.
It is a stain on you as a wife if your husband is the one that reminds you to tidy up your own office (i.e kitchen) or if your husband is the one that does the kitchen cleaning because you refused to do it.
Your matrimonial room is your powerhouse. Your job here isn't only to sleep with your husband. Don't relent in always tidying it up and making it pleasant.
Imagine how unpleasant it will be if your husband returns home for the day and found the room and bed were the same rough ways he left them.
Always make yourself friendly and approachable for your children especially your female children. Monitor them and teach them the necessary things (e.g sex, hygiene, home management, morality, etc) they need to know.
If you are too busy to make yourself available or failed to teach them, certainly someone else will be available to teach them the wrong way.
There is beauty in caring. How you care for your husband, your availability, and your concerns about his progression are what determines the length of your occupancy in his heart. Avoid making your housemaid or someone else to be more available to your husband than yourself.
This is one of the ways the temptation comes in. Some are not intentional.
Be your family prayer warrior by making prayer a habit and something you are never too tired to always engage with. Be your husband Prophetess by always encouraging, motivating, supporting, and prophesying positively into his life.
When you trap your husband down with curses and bad words, automatically you hooked yourself, children, and all that would have been progressing for your family down too.
Comparing your husband to worldly men will not give you a good idea but a wrong impression that would induce you to fall on the erroneous path.
Don't compare your husband to the world. This is one of the ways you can help to strengthen yourself and avoid distractions from doing things that are right for your husband and marriage.
As a woman, everything about you contributes to your beauty. Always clean up yourself. As a woman, your body system easily generates odors. That is the reason you need to be hygienic. Bath and change your wears (both outside and underwear) more than once daily. This will make you look fresh and smelling nice to your husband.
You can't be a wasteful, rude, dirty, sluggish, nagging, or uncaring woman and expect your husband to be happy with you. All these dirty attitudes will give your husband an irritating impression of you. If you fail to amend or change in a matter of time it can cause your husband to get tired of you in everything and this can lead to break up.
A beautiful wife is more than look and appearance.
© Adebayo Adebare
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