RESPECT THE PERSON NOT THE GENDER!
If he must be praised for his manly figure then she must not be cursed for her sexiest outfit. Respect for the person and not the gender. The place which accepted her, now denied to notice him. Nothing change until you give a drastic change. The more messy her hair was, the more attraction she got, but the more messy his hair was the more rejection he faced. They were not same in all aspects but gender descrimination always plays a vital role in all fields a person wish to come out...