When you're in a relationship the relationship should loving with care, trust, respect, loyalty and truth of both partners.

When you hear yourself telling your partner to Stop, Quit, Leave me alone.. because of
pain play... Stop..They pinch you, hit you, push you slap you little painful play it's not play painful but they are not playing. Abuse.

Anytime they call you stupid, dumd, ugly, fat
skinny, bitch, slut, hore, any name other than your name or your rightful nick name...
take notice...

If you go in the store together and your partner leaves you you call the cell they don't answer your call hiding...