If you can't change the thing, change the way you look towards it...
It may seem very often the thing we are seeking for doesn't come such easily , inspite of the fact it appears as a cakewalk for others ....One way is to get into this endless trap of begging mere respect from 'others' but what if these 'others' are really not interested in giving you so! Does it mean you are dumb in general just because these 'others' are not attending you the way you hoped? Not really because it's the way you are thinking and percepting it be .... Mutual Respect is something that is...