it's not okay to not know who you are, people will take advantage of you when you don't have strong boundaries. you become a push
over. you become an easy target to use, and abuse. please be brave enough to find who you are outside of what everyone says and man, they will talk and talk. and you'll hear the opposite of the thing someone said from someone else. it's costly to not know yourself, so please figure out that first. it's important.
it's not okay to be dumb in society either, people will take advantage of you because you don't know better. you don't know what good things feel like, you don't know how it feels when someone respects you and treats you good, you don't know how to feel relaxed with another person so you stick around everyone that makes your stomach turn. they will use this to harm you. not knowing about intuition, about how trauma and the body works can be so detrimental so I...