I was 10 when my father said 'son never speak when a woman does, just listen'.

He respected my mother, kept his mouth shut when she yelled at him.

I knew he loved my mother due to this. He always hugged my sisters and kissed my mother when he got home from work. I knew he loved them due to this.

He gave me a firm handshake and asked if i would fetch him a beer. Did he love me due to this?

When my sisters cried he gave aid to their emotions.

When i did the same he questioned if I'll ever grow up and be great.

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