It's difficult to accept that something that was once your entire world is just gone and doesn't fuckin matter any more... your left shattered with nowhere to go... you bleed internally, painfully slow as it consumes you...all the while, others looking from the outside in can tell no difference if your in pain or no, and nor can they help.....after all, it's your own pain to bear and suffer. What's another going to do to ease your pain other than throw words at you and expect it to help....the damage has already been done, thy very being shattered to pieces and crumbling...