Let's not lie about this we all have experienced it one way or another I see it a lot especially old people think it's normal for example in India if you tell your grandmother about a new friend you made and her name she will instantly ask you about her caste and even asks you if she is a Muslim or hindu based on her name it's common but some people don't do that let's talk about the common things so I have a sister she is my elder sister we are 5 years apart but she is skinny while I'm a little taller than her and fat well I'm not necessarily fat but compared to her I am so whenever some guests come even though they have been told that I am younger they just have to say " oh I thought that she was older " and passes me sympathetic smiles I don't know about them but I will never be ashamed of myself or sympathize my mind...