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Empathy is not tragedy
Empathy is not tragedy. These is no tragedy in being empathetic, empathic, caring, kind or sensitive. Feeling emotions that are unique to every individual human being is not a problem, issue or tragedy. Every human being has the right to feel anger, sadness, pain, happiness, excitement, love, worry, concern, unsure and however they naturally feel; Without another person grooming them to suppress or feel it differently to how they are able to and also know they feel.

Conformity, grooming and conditioning is human conditioning; And human conditioning is somehow defined separately to conditioning.
Because ‘the human condition’ is an approved science of what the human condition supposedly is and should be. But to condition a person means ‘the process of training or accustoming a person or animal to behave in a certain way or to accept certain circumstances’, this is also called Classical Conditioning and is also Behavioural Psychology by Ivan Pavlov. That is what science is also based on. So are children learning human conditioning or human anatomy? Which is it?

Because science also doesn’t accurately represent human anatomy either; The people, especially women, who have been conditioned to still believe the sperm fights for the egg are living proof of that. No, they are not stupid; They were groomed and lied to. That is what patriarchy is; Conditioning, grooming, abuse and lies. The truth is: The egg conceives with the sperm it chooses and rejects the sperm it doesn’t want. There is no fighting; There is no war; A woman is not likely to instantaneously conceive even with a multitude of sperm; The woman’s body also has to be taken care of. Otherwise the egg and sperm are both rejected from the woman’s body. Human anatomy is not linear but it is also fabricated to suit the lies and grooming of the patriarchy; Who do not empathise with girls, women or anyone from a marginalised community.

Children are taught from young ages to accept that anger is more appropriate amongst boys than it is amongst girls. Girls are then forced to suppress their anger when they are being abused and boys are allowed to be masculine and abusive towards girls and women as they grow older; Because men are “tough and strong”. Feminists are challenging the archetypes that the patriarchy are forcibly conditioning children of all genders to believe is ‘correct’ because it continues their systemic patriarchy, which is driven by war, greed, marginalised communities and death; Death to all those they don’t care for.

No human being should ever exist within an archetype, tick box, in gender defined roles, or in a gender they do not want to be defined as— that is not love or living; That is conditioning, grooming, abusing, lying; Human conditioning.

If children and adults were allowed to exist as they would like to exist and were not conditioned to feel differently from how they were already born able to feel; With all their emotions in tact; Then there would be more love and happiness. That is what feminists believe in.

© Lois Christina