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Night of the Aurora(facts not poetry?)
Why do we hurt what we love,is a common question that torment many.Why did he or she broke me emotionally or kill the other person because they loved each other?
No doubt the love is deep but.....

Here is my idea on that.
When we love a person deeply it's because we see abit of ourselves in that person.A character similarity or a moral equivalency,identical to us.Yes in a way we love them deeply because we loving what we both represent that is mutually inborn in us out of past circumstances that were created subconsciously to identity us.Pain is the main reason why people relate to each other or hate at first sight.For example we fall in love with a song because we relate to it's meaning like it was sang for u.....and we listen to it repeatedly but no matter how much the song talks about your feelings,the words will never be yours and you will eventually hate it because you got your own words to sing.
And you eventually hate it and search for similar and more identical genre.But the cycle will end the same.(you became labeled a womanizer)

We fall in love because of a similar characteristic attraction,in other words we love the US we see in the other person.The disappointed comes when no matter how similar u are,you are not the same.You have different ways of dealing with common factors that unified you in life(love for a song you relate to like l said earlier but the words are not yours)We try to change wat we love to suit us because we are clouded by the idea that we are the same....but people deal differently with their feelings because no matter how similar the pain that bind 2 people and create a relationship;
"Alas, its a preconceived notion that experience shared is results manufactured."
That alas is the beginning of a more nightmarish relationship.(same hell different devils does not make the punishment the same or how we receive it similar.

We have different instinctive sensors providing sanctuary to a mind because of a subconscious storage that reminds us of the unforgettable experiences and has a way of dealing with it that many people might find disappointing and judge or might find impressive and idolize.(for a example a drunkard wasting away,or a broken girl turned prostitute to feel needed.But society looks at them in shame.
But you look at a singer with big hits crying his pain in a lyrical mellifluous voice.....same pain but different sanctuary,yet they call it art and crown him or her.

ANSWER:
We disappoint ourselves daily because we don't understand ourselves,why we cry and despair.
ITS NICE TO MEET A PERSON WHO HAS BEEN THROUGH THE SAME JOURNEY YOU ON....BECAUSE THE PROMISE OF BEING UNDERSTOOD IS A LOAD LIFTED...
A JOURNEY SHARED WITH A COMMON FOCUS,THE ARRIVAL IS SWIFT AND BLISSFUL.

IS THERE ANY ARRIVAL OR IS IT AN ERRONEOUS PERCEPTION ....?

The journey might be memorable but every traveler on a familiar path has a different resting place with different resources to accommodate their needs to progress on to their destinations.A routine that cannot easily be changed...

Truth is a like minded based relationship with mutually shared views and morals is a beautiful connection yet doomed to end up badly with major emotional catastrophic echoes of low self esteem and emotional detachment to anything that comes after....
Same experiences does not make a relationship strong because we might have survived the same war but we carried different arsenal.Same training as a soldier,but war kills the ones that come back to carry the wounded because of the spirit of oneness shared.

Same magnetic fields have the same force that are repellent;
but they work strongest on attracting opposite fields.

The sun and the moon they both equal and travel the same time frame allocated.Shining in their unchangable ways but their brightness is measured by the habitants of a world that have different sight in their luminating cycles.
WE HURT THE ONES WE LOVE BECAUSE WE ARE AFFRAID TO LET THEM HURT US FIRST HENCE CREATING CONSTANT PARANOIA AND INSECURITIES THAT ARE LIKE TERRORISTS ON A SACRIFICAL MISSON TO KILL INNOCENCE TO DESTROY GOVERMENCE SUPREMITY.....And get punished and killed for nothing and still no change yielded.

Suicides,homicide,famicides and genocides are typical stories of loving someone because YOU EXPECT to be understood because of similar character personality and idealism.

POETRY VERSION..
Maybe am wrong is the right admission if you not certain you correct?
I don't know if my perception is irrelevant or it's tantamount to chasing a whirlwind.
l don't know if it's the sound of my vuvuzela reverberating communication to far lands ?
Or a mocking slap in the face from a mountain farting back a much echoed reply....
l don't know what feelings are or l am used to my daily doze of feeling broken like a machinic's car coughing pain from daily fixing with used different parts.
Maybe a relationship should be appreciated for starting temporary illumination like a diesel generator emanating deafening noise from every physical cranking to keep brightness flooded?
Tell me,is pain endurable torture to sustain lights on a dark journey to merely cry in hidden shadows that mask reality with Disney tents?

Maybe love is akin to a frivolous rationalization that a shadow tailing a physical being is better because it has shape and clarity.
The darker the shadow the more it seems real?
Yet so clear of its substantial deficiency to authenticate form but comfortable enough to stand proud in duplication.
Relationship are tantamount to cliff diving tornaments;
Tempting fate or fear of surviving?
Many willing people jumping or is it pushed?
Am perplexed.
I wonder is the trophy given to the longest frightening fall or the first to paint the bottom with splashed brains?
lts a game of Russian Roulette and the thrill of the sport is still a debatable mystery of who is the winner between the head and the bullet.
A Melema campaign,so serious yet we spectate to encourage African comedy to the world

© luisRupende