Is your love a reason for their comfort or discomfort?

Love brings care and comfort but if the same love becomes the reason for someone's unease, then that love loses its value.

Love brings out different emotions in people. Some people become so possessive that they that they feel they own the other person. The fear of losing their loved one makes them take control over their lives. This leads to nothing but slowly creates conflicts in a relationship. Everyone wants to be and feel free. Being taken care of is different from the feeling of being owned.

Care for people you love but don't let that care turn into control. Love is about freedom, when you take control they may lose freedom, but you lose them.


© David Hope